We’re sure YOU know when to capitalize “mom” and “dad,” but we’re betting many of your family members or social media followers don’t. For those of us who love words, that can be like fingernails on a chalkboard. Here are some easy tips to help your friends get it right!
Capitalize Mom and Dad as a Proper Noun
When you’re referring to a specific person, you may be using the proper noun form. In this case, you would capitalize the words “mom” and “dad.” One easy way to tell if a word is a proper noun is to substitute the word for a person’s name. If it makes sense, then it’s a proper noun.
Easy Ways to Tell Not to Capitalize
Don’t capitalize “mom” and “dad” if
- the word is preceded by “my,” “your,” or any other possessive adjective,
- the word is preceded by “a” or “the,” or
- you are referring to moms or dads in general.
Examples
“My dad is the smartest dad in the whole world.”
“I have a surprise for you,” Mom said.
“That’s when Dad came home with a box of pumpkin chocolate chip cookies.”
“Your mom and my mom were talking, and Mom said we will visit for the holidays.”
“But, Mom!” she whined.
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What if I’m referencing their name. EX: “this is my mom, Kim.” I feel like mom should not be capitalized since the proper noun is present, but can you confirm what MLA / APA thinks?
In this case, “mom” is not capitalized, because it is preceded by the word “my.”
If, on the other hand, you were to say “This is Mom, Kim,” then “mom” would be capitalized because the word “my” isn’t there. (Now, that would certainly be weird to say since “my” is generally used when you’re talking to someone who doesn’t have the same mom, but you wouldn’t introduce your mom that way to a sibling!)
is it, I am Jack’s mum or I am Jack’s Mum?
It would be “I am Jack’s mum.”
If I say my, I, mom dad or my sister or a character or them me it gotta be capital.
When Emma was born, mom and dad gave her the tiny room next to theirs . do mom and dad need to be capitalized?
Yes, they would be capitalized in this example because they can be substituted by names.